The Psychology of Winning

Denis Waitley

the 10 qualities of a total winner

Quality 1:  Positive Self-Expectancy 

"Life is a self fulfilling prophecy. True winners go into every event expecting to win." winners never give up, they do their best to win every single circustances that they have in their lives, they never give up they are the ones that start to give the first step, they take the first step and do their best to make good differences, they always want to win so what they do to win is that they always do their best, if a winner is a students is like that student is always going to do his/her best because they want to win good grades they always participating, they do their homework and they never give up, they always choose the right and they will never give up, if you are a total winner you might have to do your best and let's say that you want to get A's in all your classes, what a winner is going to do is he/she is going to study, work hard to have better grades and is always going to choose the right even though if people judge them, a winner doesn't care if someone call them a loser or if someone be like oh you are going to get a bad grade because the test is really hard, a winner ignores those negative words and he/she is going to keep working hard and making good choices and never give up.

Quality 2: Positive Self-Motivation 

"True winners dig deep and find motivation inside themselves to get through that tough task or to learn a new skill." to motivate yourself and never give up do what you have to do and win what you want win, having positive self-motivation is something very special because it helps you to be different and to do what's right and to never give up, do your best do what you have to do, reach your goals and never give up, there's going to be people that is going to make you feel like you are nothing , when something like that happens just ignore it and keep up going what you have to do, do what's right because if you do the right thing what are you going to get is good things but if you do what is wrong you are going to get bad things , all depends on you, everything its up to you if you want to get good things do what is right  motivate yourself cheer yourself make your self happy and ignore all those negative thoughts, keep it up and never give up and always choose the right, when you choose the right everything will be right never give up and always choose the right and remember its up to you about what you want to do. receiving a good feedback but if you accomplished and trust me i went through to many bad things but now i'm proud of the person that i am and never giving up on it and keep up going and climbing mountains and taking breaks and never giving up, and always every single day choose the right and do what's right.

Quality 3: Positive Self-Image

True winners are confident and view themselves as competent, valuable human beings. true winners are confident and view themselves as competent, means like you want to be someone professional with a good career and something that might help you to do better, is someone that is always viewing themselves as great winners, proud of themselves, someone that really help them to do good, and they never give up, someone that is always thinking positive and always doing what is right, someone that doens't care about going to sleep late, because they work hard to reach their goals, but those days of not enough sleeping and eating those days one dya they going to be resting and having a life like a queen or king, if you work hard and you are viewing yourself as a great person in the future be proud of you and keep it going like that and never give up, always being doing the right and choosing to work hard until you reach your goals, it doesn't matter if you get asleep late what matters is that you should work hard if you see yourself living a life that everyone would like to have, never give up and work hard to reach all your goals without living one behind. never give up but first if you want all those goals for your life you have to be faithful with god because there's nothing imposible for god, we can do everything right because god love us and he always will be there wherever we go, believe in yourself.

Quality 4: Positive Self-Direction

You gotta have direction if you are going to go anywhere. True winners know where they are going. Their sense of direction comes from the self and not from outside influences like parents or friends. you have to have direction where you want to go and making sure that is what you want to do, never giving up and always doing your best to win everything you want, be positive and do your best to stop thinking about negative thoughts always do your best and nveer give up because if you are a winner you have to be positive because winners do not care about what others think what they want is to be positive and be responsible, and never giving up on something because they want the best for them and they do not need to be stressout, winners we have to be positives and always doing our best as we all know that every single goal that you have they might come true but there's the solution working hard, going late to sleep, leaving family for months or days to be in a good place to study and being ready for anything that might come true, because winners go through pain but they always positive and sometimes they might tired and when they get tired or they think that they can't do that that's the time that they have to be strong and seek for support from others, do your best work hard to reach your goals, it can be thousands of goals what matters is that you'll get them but you have to work hard for it it is going to be hard for a few days but then it's going to be better in your dream house, dream cars, careers and family, work hard for anything you want.

Quality 5: Positive Self-Control

Total winners can sacrifice immediate pleasure for a gain in the future. Delayed gratification is of immense value in reaching your goals. i am a woman who is with much love and power to always be positive, i have to reach my goals and i have faith in my self, there's more important things that you should know if you really want to be a great positive perspn, first all you need is love yourself, second one take actions, third one make good choices, fourth one work in team let them be heard, you have to be a positive person because if you start saying like oh no i am not going to make it because is too much, please take those negative thoughts out of your mind because is not going to help you to go anywhere if you want to take good actions you want be successful what you have to do is have faith in god because he is the only that is always going to be holding your hand but if you give him your heart, have positive vibes because i believe nobody will like to be with someone that is always having negative thoughts, we all have to make it we got this, we have everything in our hands, we can do it, thanks to god we will all have what we want is just that we have to be positive with energy taking the best actions in life never giving up, always choosing the right, do your best and whatch what will happen all ypur dreams in your hands all true,  work hard to reach your goals and never give up and take away those negative thoughts.

Quality 6: Positive Self-Discipline

You have to discipline yourself or else someone else will discipline you into doing what they want you to do. Total winners have the power to discipline and take control of their lives. how to control your self, it is very easy to control your self you just need to believe in your self and do not make excuses, let's say for example i am going to a taller de vida, taller de vida is a program that you have to pay and they teach you how to be better and what can you do to improve it, so i have to pay but i am a student and i have no enough money to pay it, so what i told myself was to sell chocolates so i could go to the program and because its something that i really love going i believed in myself and that's what i am doing because i really want to go there and i have faith that i am going to finished and that i am going to help them to enrroll more people to the program because it helps us a lot, and that's how you control your self by believing in you and when you feel that you can't keep doing it you just have to do your best put your extra mile because you got this, never give up more if you really love what you doing or about to do.

Quality 7: Positive Self-Esteem

Your mood and outlook on life affect the way you see the world and how you interact in it. Total winners are positive, powerful people who make people feel good and provide a good vibe to those around him/her. i love the positive self esteem because i love being positive around people, that's one of the things that i like doing because when i see people sad or i noticed that something wrong is going on with them that's the part when i have to stand up and be stronght and help them to feel safe around me and make them feel like they could count on me, because i really like being positive sometimes i have my downs but i do not give up, we have to be strong we have to help others to be strong because there are to many people that needs a hug, and words that might help them to feel safe and that they have someone to count on, never give up and keep doing your best and remeber whenever you feel sad do your best to make yourself happy and if you ever mad make a call to someone that you might know that they will help you to feel better, never give up and do your best for you because if you don't do anything for your life no one is going to do their best for you, because you are the one that has to make eveyrthing right and because you are the one that has to love yourself because if you dont love yourself no one will.

Quality 8: Positive Self-Dimension

Total winners like in the present. They know that now is all there is. They don’t get caught up in the past or worry about the future. They simply handle the business that they can handle which is the stuff going on today, now. always be positive to yourself and to others, is always good being positive because it really help you with your life and the goals that you really want to reach, always keep it up and never give up, be positive becuase by being positive good things will happen, we are positive but there's a problem that we have to reach for it we have to do our best and always keep going, never give up and always choose the right and never give up and i really in love with myself because i being so positive with everything there's times that we have problems and for little problems we stressed out but there's always a solution that we have to do our best and always choose the right, i love myself because i being so positive with myself and to others and what i like about being positive is that people runs to me saying thank you for being there for them and that they trust me and that they feel so happy because they feel free to be with me and i help them to choose the right, i love being positive because about being positive helps me to always help others and help myself and never giving up for litttle things, and i am so thankful with god and my tecaher because i been learning so much in this class and i'm also thankful with god for life wrokshop becuase that program has help me in everything it's so amazing that's the place where i learned how to love myself and others, i am so in love with myself because being positive trust me is like living the greatest life ever, love yourself and be positive to yourself and others. and if you really need help and want the best for you, we have someone that is always goinng to keep us strong and that person is god always trust in god and give him your heart.

Quality 9: Positive Self-Awareness

Total winners are aware of their power. They understand that they can be anything with enough effort and determination. positive self awareness is something that we all love because is when we do our best to gain everything that we want, we are the ones that seek for help to improve our best, we are the ones that we always make good decissions although sometimes we have mistakes but those mistakes teach us how to keep going and hot wo be responsibles with our own life, we are the ones that want the best for every one else around us because if we are living a great life with everything that we want we want others to be living as we live, we want others to have a good future as we are doing if we all help each other this world would be dull of love, happiness, and peace and liberty, we could change the world but if we want to change the world we have to be the first one to work on ourselves and then enroll others and always doing the right and never giving up because wqe all want the best for others and for our future, and everything that happens is because of us we have make a difference in the world we have to do our best and always be doing the right and never giving up on anything.

Quality 10: Positive Action

before taking anaction write down a vision write about what you want to have and all the things that you want to have done and then you can begin with your action.

Total winners take positive action in their business and with their friends and family. They are uplifting and motivating individuals who inspire the best from themselves and other, positive action is one of the most favorite quality for me it is because positive action is something that inspires me to do what i always wanted to do, i remeber when i didn't know hot to take action and i know maybe you all think oh yes we all do take actions but no it's  not true, how i learned to take action was knowing that i didn't have what i always wanted to have so is something really important to know, taking positive actions with yourself, family and friends is soemthing really good and for me is the best thing we can do, taking actions with yourself is doing what you always wanted to do for example i always wanted to drive and have my lisence to drive but now i'm sixteen years old and i haven't take an action but few weeks ago i told myself i need to do something and then i went to a program that is called life workshop and they spoke about taking action and what you really want and to have a positive life so i was like oh yes  that's all i need take action, so now i am going to the dmv on saturday to do my writting test and learning how to drive and 2 more months or 1 more month i'll be driving a my car and with a lisence, everything is possible if you work hard to reach what you want, because i am really happy that i take positive action and it really help me with my life and i always wanted to do the best. positive action with my family wow i',m so surprise because i didn't have communication with my family we were living same house and evrything but it always was like we were never there to each other, but  now that we all know how to take positive actions now we hugged each other before going to school, there's no fights at home and its just love, happiness and peace, it is going to be hard when we start but we have to be patient and do our best and do not ever give up because is your life and your family. positive action with friends soemthing that i love , when some of our friends are doing things that they shouldn't be doing we have to help each other because we all need help and we want to do the best for others if you know how to take positive action and others doesn't do your best and show them and depends on how your personality is that's how they are going to be, show people that you're positive and that everything is possible if we work hard and don't forget that is always going to be at your side and is God.